Primary Disclaimer
THE MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION
CUSTODY.MOM IS NOT A LAW FIRM. WE DO NOT PROVIDE LEGAL ADVICE. NOTHING ON THIS WEBSITE CONSTITUTES LEGAL ADVICE OR CREATES AN ATTORNEY-CLIENT RELATIONSHIP.
This statement cannot be emphasized enough.
What This Means
We provide:
- âś“ General educational information about child custody law
- âś“ Explanations of legal concepts and processes
- âś“ Overviews of state custody laws
- âś“ Connections to licensed attorneys who CAN provide legal advice
- âś“ Tools and resources for informational purposes
We do NOT provide:
- Legal advice tailored to your specific situation
- Legal representation in court
- Analysis of your particular case
- Predictions about your case outcome
- Strategic guidance for your circumstances
- Professional legal services
The Critical Difference
Legal Information (What We Provide): “In California, courts consider the best interests of the child when making custody decisions. Factors include the child’s health, safety, and welfare.”
Legal Advice (What Attorneys Provide): “Based on your specific situation with your ex-spouse’s substance abuse history and your documentation of involvement in your child’s education and medical care, you should request sole legal custody with joint physical custody on a supervised basis initially. Here’s the strategy we’ll use…”
See the difference? We provide the first. You need an attorney for the second.
Not A Law Firm
What Custody.mom Is and Is Not
Custody.mom is:
- âś“ An online educational resource
- âś“ An information platform
- âś“ An attorney matching service
- âś“ A tool provider
- âś“ A content publisher
Custody.mom is NOT:
- A law firm
- A legal practice
- A provider of legal services
- A professional services firm
- A substitute for an attorney
We Do Not Practice Law
We do not:
- Represent clients in legal matters
- Appear in court on anyone’s behalf
- File legal documents on behalf of users
- Negotiate with other parties
- Draft legal documents for filing (we may provide templates for educational purposes only)
- Provide legal opinions
- Evaluate legal claims
- Practice law in any jurisdiction
Doing these things without a license would be unauthorized practice of law (UPL), which is illegal.
No One at Custody.mom Is Your Attorney
Even if licensed attorneys work for Custody.mom:
- They are not working in a legal capacity on this website
- They are not providing legal services through this platform
- They are not your attorney by virtue of their employment here
- Any content they create is educational, not legal advice
Your attorney is someone you formally hire to represent you, not anyone associated with this website.
No Legal Advince
We Do Not Give Legal Advice
NOTHING ON THIS WEBSITE CONSTITUTES LEGAL ADVICE.
This is true regardless of:
- How specific the information seems
- How detailed the explanation is
- How much it relates to your situation
- How helpful you find it
- What state you’re in
- What you’re using the information for
What IS Legal Advice?
Legal advice includes:
- Analysis of your specific facts and circumstances
- Application of law to your particular situation
- Recommendations for action in your case
- Strategic guidance for your legal matter
- Predictions about likely outcomes in your case
- Evaluation of your legal claims or defenses
- Telling you what you should or shouldn’t do legally
Legal advice requires:
- Attorney-client relationship
- Licensed attorney
- Analysis of specific circumstances
- Professional responsibility to client
- Attorney-client privilege
What We Provide (NOT Legal Advice)
We provide legal information:
- General explanations of legal concepts
- Overviews of legal processes
- Summaries of laws by state
- Educational content about custody
- Examples and illustrations (hypothetical)
- Resources and tools
This is:
- Public information
- General education
- Reference material
- Starting point for research
NOT:
- Advice specific to you
- Analysis of your case
- Recommendations for your situation
- Attorney services
Examples to Illustrate
Legal Information (We Provide):
- “Courts in most states consider factors like parental fitness, child’s wishes (if age-appropriate), and ability to provide stable home when making custody decisions.”
- “To file for custody modification, you generally must show a material change in circumstances.”
- “Joint legal custody means both parents share decision-making authority for major decisions.”
Legal Advice (Attorneys Provide):
- “You should file for emergency custody immediately because of what you told me about the domestic violence incident.”
- “Based on your income and the custody schedule we’re proposing, you would owe approximately $X in child support.”
- “Don’t mention your DUI from five years ago in your declaration unless opposing counsel brings it up first.”
We provide the former. Attorneys provide the latter.
Why the Distinction Matters
Legal advice:
- Creates legal duties and responsibilities
- Creates liability for malpractice
- Is protected by attorney-client privilege
- Requires professional insurance
- Subject to ethical rules
- Can only be given by licensed attorneys
Legal information:
- No special legal relationship
- No professional duties owed
- Not privileged
- Can be provided by non-lawyers
- Used at reader’s own risk
No Attorney Client Relationship
No Legal Relationship Exists
USING CUSTODY.MOM DOES NOT CREATE AN ATTORNEY-CLIENT RELATIONSHIP.
No attorney-client relationship exists between:
- You and Custody.mom (we’re not lawyers)
- You and anyone who works for Custody.mom
- You and attorneys in our network (unless you formally hire them)
- You and anyone associated with this website
What Creates Attorney-Client Relationship
An attorney-client relationship is created when:
- You formally hire an attorney
- Attorney explicitly agrees to represent you
- Usually evidenced by written retainer agreement
- After consultation where both parties agree
- Attorney begins providing legal services to you
NOT created by:
- Visiting this website
- Reading our content
- Using our tools
- Submitting attorney request form
- Receiving attorney contact information
- Attorney contacting you once
- Having free consultation
- Sending email to us or attorney
No Attorney-Client Privilege
Communications with Custody.mom are NOT privileged:
- Not protected by attorney-client privilege
- Not confidential legal communications
- May be disclosed if legally required
- Can be used against you
- No expectation of privacy in legal sense
Do NOT send us:
- Confidential legal information
- Sensitive case details
- Information you want protected
- Information you wouldn’t want disclosed
Once you hire an attorney:
- Communications with that attorney generally privileged
- Subject to exceptions (crime-fraud, etc.)
- Governed by their confidentiality obligations
- Consult that attorney about privilege scope
No Fiduciary Duty
We owe you no fiduciary duty:
- No duty of loyalty
- No duty to act in your best interest
- No duty to prioritize your interests over others
- No special legal obligations to you
- Relationship is simply website user/provider
Independent Research Required
You must:
- Conduct your own legal research
- Verify information independently
- Consult with licensed attorney
- Make your own legal decisions
- Not rely solely on our content
Educational Information Only
Purpose and Scope of Our Content
All content on Custody.mom is for educational and informational purposes only.
What “Educational Purpose” Means
Our content is designed to:
- Help you understand custody laws generally
- Explain legal processes and procedures
- Introduce legal concepts and terminology
- Provide overview of state law variations
- Help you have informed discussions with attorneys
- Assist you in understanding what to expect
Our content is NOT designed to:
- Replace attorney consultation
- Provide case-specific guidance
- Tell you what to do in your situation
- Predict outcomes in your case
- Serve as your only source of legal information
Limitations of Educational Content
Educational content is:
- General by nature
- Simplified for readability
- Not comprehensive or exhaustive
- Cannot cover all scenarios
- Cannot account for all variables
- Starting point, not ending point
Cannot replace:
- Professional legal advice
- Lawyer’s analysis of your facts
- Strategic guidance for your case
- Representation in legal proceedings
How to Use Our Content Appropriately
DO use our content to:
- Learn about custody law generally
- Understand basic legal concepts
- Prepare questions for attorney consultation
- Research before hiring attorney
- Understand what to expect in process
- Supplement attorney’s guidance
DON’T use our content to:
- Replace hiring an attorney
- Make legal decisions without professional help
- File legal documents without attorney review
- Represent yourself in complex matters
- Rely on as your sole source of information
State Law Variations
Laws Vary Dramatically by State
CHILD CUSTODY LAWS DIFFER SIGNIFICANTLY FROM STATE TO STATE.
This is one of the most important limitations of our content.
How States Differ
States vary on:
Custody Types and Terminology:
- Some states use “legal custody” and “physical custody”
- Some use “parenting time” instead of “visitation”
- Some use “allocation of parental responsibilities”
- Terminology differs significantly
Factors Courts Consider:
- Each state has its own statutory factors
- Some states have 10+ factors
- Some have broader discretion
- Weight given to factors varies
- Some factors exist only in certain states
Standards for Modification:
- Different standards for changing custody
- Some require “substantial change”
- Others “material change in circumstances”
- Burden of proof varies
- Timeframes vary
Relocation Rules:
- Dramatically different by state
- Some require court permission
- Some only require notice
- Distance thresholds vary
- Procedures completely different
Presumptions:
- Some states presume joint custody
- Some have no presumptions
- Some presume against domestic violence perpetrators
- Rebuttability varies
Procedures:
- Filing procedures differ
- Required documents vary
- Mandatory mediation in some states
- Parent education requirements differ
- Timelines vary significantly
Our State-Specific Content
We provide state-specific pages, but:
- Cannot cover every detail of state law
- Cannot cover every local variation
- Cannot account for recent changes
- Cannot replace consulting local attorney
- Should be verified with official sources
Even within states:
- County rules may differ
- Local procedures vary
- Judges have discretion
- Court culture differs
You Must Verify for Your State
Always:
- Consult your state’s current statutes
- Check your local court rules
- Hire attorney licensed in your state
- Verify information is current
- Understand your jurisdiction’s requirements
Never:
- Assume another state’s law applies to you
- Rely on general information for specific case
- Use forms or procedures from wrong state
- Assume our summaries are complete
Information Acurracy And Currency
Limitations on Accuracy and Timeliness
While we strive for accuracy, we cannot guarantee that all information is accurate, complete, or current.
Accuracy Limitations
Despite our best efforts:
- Information may contain errors or omissions
- Explanations may be oversimplified
- Details may be incomplete
- Interpretations may vary
- Errors may occur in writing or editing
We are not liable for:
- Inaccuracies in content
- Errors or omissions
- Outdated information
- Misinterpretations
- Consequences of relying on inaccurate information
Currency Limitations
Laws change constantly:
- Legislatures pass new statutes
- Courts issue new decisions
- Procedures are updated
- Rules change
- Forms are revised
Our content:
- Reflects law at time of writing
- May not reflect recent changes
- Updated periodically, not constantly
- May lag behind legal developments
- Has “last updated” dates (when available)
Legal change examples:
- New custody factors added by legislature
- Court decision changing interpretation
- Procedural rules modified
- Forms updated
- Requirements changed
Your Responsibility to Verify
You must:
- Check official legal sources
- Verify current law in your state
- Consult current court rules
- Review recent case law
- Hire attorney who knows current law
- Not rely solely on our content
Official sources include:
- State statutes (official government websites)
- Court rules (court websites)
- Recent case law (legal databases)
- Licensed attorneys (current on law)
No Duty to Update
We have no obligation to:
- Keep all content current
- Update for every legal change
- Notify users of changes
- Maintain accuracy perpetually
- Monitor legal developments constantly
When we do update:
- Best efforts basis
- No guarantee of currency
- May prioritize certain content
- Cannot catch every change immediately
Attorney Matching Service Disclaimer
Limitations of Our Referral Service
Our attorney matching service connects parents with licensed attorneys, but we make no guarantees about attorney quality, performance, or outcomes.
What We Do
We:
- Verify attorneys are licensed in their state
- Check basic state bar standing
- Confirm family law focus
- Share your information with selected attorneys (1-3)
- Facilitate initial contact
What We DON’T Do
We do NOT:
- Evaluate attorney competence or skill
- Guarantee attorney quality
- Endorse specific attorneys
- Recommend one attorney over another
- Monitor attorney performance
- Supervise attorney work
- Control attorney fees
- Guarantee attorney availability
- Ensure attorney ethics
- Verify attorney experience claims
- Conduct background checks beyond bar status
- Interview or test attorneys
- Review attorney case outcomes
Attorney Independence
Attorneys in our network are:
- Independent professionals
- Not our employees
- Not our agents
- Not supervised by us
- Running their own practices
- Making their own decisions
- Setting their own fees
- Responsible for their own conduct
We are NOT responsible for:
- Attorney malpractice
- Attorney ethics violations
- Attorney misconduct
- Attorney performance
- Attorney-client disputes
- Attorney fees or billing disputes
- Legal outcomes
- Satisfaction with attorney services
Your Responsibility
You must:
- Conduct your own due diligence
- Research attorneys independently
- Check state bar records yourself
- Read reviews and references
- Interview multiple attorneys
- Verify credentials and experience
- Trust your instincts
- Make your own hiring decision
- Review retainer agreements carefully
- Understand fee structures
Don’t rely solely on:
- Our screening process
- Fact that attorney is in our network
- Information attorney provides in profile
- Our facilitation of contact
No Guarantees
We make NO guarantees about:
- Attorney quality or competence
- Case outcomes
- Attorney responsiveness
- Satisfaction with services
- Attorney availability
- Cost of services
- Time to resolution
- Success in your case
Complaints About Attorneys
If you have issues with an attorney:
- File complaint with state bar association
- Contact state lawyer discipline authority
- Seek legal remedies if appropriate
- We are not the proper complaint recipient
- We cannot mediate attorney-client disputes
- We cannot provide refunds for attorney services
We may:
- Remove attorneys with verified serious complaints
- Monitor for patterns of issues
- But we don’t investigate or resolve individual disputes
No Guarantees Or Warranties
Disclaimers of All Warranties
WE PROVIDE NO GUARANTEES OR WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND.
Information Disclaimers
We make no warranty that:
- Information is accurate
- Information is complete
- Information is current
- Information applies to your situation
- Information will be helpful
- Information will lead to favorable outcomes
Service Disclaimers
We make no warranty that:
- Website will be available uninterrupted
- Website will be error-free
- Defects will be corrected
- Tools will provide accurate results
- Services will meet your needs
- Services will be provided indefinitely
Attorney Disclaimers
We make no warranty that:
- Attorneys will contact you
- Attorneys will be available
- Attorneys will accept your case
- Attorneys will be competent
- You will be satisfied with attorneys
- Legal outcomes will be favorable
“As Is” Provision
All content and services provided “AS IS” and “AS AVAILABLE”:
- No implied warranties
- No warranty of merchantability
- No warranty of fitness for particular purpose
- No warranty of non-infringement
- No warranty of title
- All warranties disclaimed to maximum extent permitted by law
No Professional Warranties
We do not warrant:
- Professional competence (we’re not professionals providing services)
- Professional standards met
- Professional liability coverage
- Professional expertise
- Professional advice quality
Reliance On Information
Using Information at Your Own Risk
YOU USE ALL INFORMATION ON THIS WEBSITE AT YOUR OWN RISK.
No Reliance Recommended
You should NOT rely on:
- Our content as legal advice
- Our content as your sole source of information
- Our content for making legal decisions
- Our content as current or accurate
- Our content as complete or comprehensive
- Our attorney screening as sufficient due diligence
Consequences of Reliance
If you rely on our information:
- You do so voluntarily
- You assume all risks
- You bear all consequences
- We are not responsible for outcomes
- We are not liable for damages
- You waive certain claims against us
Better Sources for Legal Decisions
For legal decisions, rely on:
- Licensed attorney’s advice specific to your case
- Official legal sources (statutes, court rules)
- Current case law
- Your attorney’s research and analysis
- Court rulings in your case
NOT:
- General website content
- Generic legal information
- Unofficial sources
- Your own legal interpretation
- Non-attorney advice
Examples of Inappropriate Reliance
DON’T do these things:
- File court documents based solely on our content
- Make custody decisions without attorney
- Represent yourself using only our information
- Assume our state law summary is complete
- Use our tools without attorney verification
- Ignore attorney advice based on our content
- Miss deadlines assuming our timelines are exact
- Rely on our content in court
These are inappropriate uses that could harm your case.
Need For Professional Legal Counsel
You Need an Attorney
YOU SHOULD CONSULT WITH A LICENSED ATTORNEY ABOUT YOUR CUSTODY CASE.
This cannot be emphasized enough.
Why You Need an Attorney
Custody cases are:
- Complex legally
- High stakes (your relationship with children)
- Governed by complicated laws
- Subject to procedural requirements
- Emotionally charged
- Often contentious
- Fact-specific
- Requiring professional expertise
Attorneys provide:
- Legal advice specific to your situation
- Strategic guidance for your case
- Professional representation
- Court experience
- Knowledge of local procedures
- Objective perspective
- Protection of your rights
- Advocacy for your interests
When to Hire Attorney
You should hire attorney for:
- Contested custody cases
- Any case going to court
- Cases with complications (DV, substance abuse, etc.)
- Relocation cases
- Modification of orders
- Enforcement issues
- Emergency situations
- Any high-stakes custody matter
Even in “simple” cases:
- Attorney can ensure proper procedures followed
- Attorney can spot issues you miss
- Attorney can draft better documents
- Attorney can negotiate better terms
- Small investment can prevent big problems
Our Attorney Matching Service
We can help you find an attorney:
- Use our attorney matching service
- Connect with 1-3 licensed attorneys
- Free consultations typically offered
- No obligation to hire
Don’t Go It Alone
Representing yourself (pro se) is:
- Risky in custody cases
- Often leads to poor outcomes
- Not recommended for contested matters
- Acceptable only in truly uncontested cases
Even if you can’t afford attorney:
- Look into legal aid
- Seek limited scope representation
- Use payment plans
- Borrow from family
- It’s worth the investment
Your children’s future is too important to risk.
Court Rules And Procedures
Local Rules Vary
COURT PROCEDURES AND RULES VARY BY JURISDICTION.
Our Content is General
We provide:
- General overview of typical custody process
- Common procedures across jurisdictions
- General timeline expectations
- Typical custody factors
We cannot provide:
- Specific local court rules
- County-specific procedures
- Individual judge’s preferences
- Exact timelines for your court
- Required forms for your jurisdiction
You Must Check Local Rules
Every jurisdiction has:
- Local court rules (in addition to state rules)
- Specific forms required
- Particular procedures
- Filing requirements
- Timing requirements
- Formatting requirements
You must:
- âś“ Check your county court’s website
- âś“ Review local rules thoroughly
- âś“ Use correct forms for your jurisdiction
- âś“ Follow local procedures exactly
- âś“ Meet local deadlines
- âś“ Hire local attorney who knows local rules
Consequences of Not Following Rules
If you don’t follow local rules:
- Case may be dismissed
- Documents may be rejected
- Motions may be denied
- You may miss deadlines
- You may lose rights
- Judge may be frustrated with you
Local rules are mandatory, not optional.
Limitation Of Liability
Our Limited Liability
WE ARE NOT LIABLE FOR DAMAGES ARISING FROM YOUR USE OF THIS WEBSITE OR RELIANCE ON ITS CONTENT.
What We’re Not Liable For
We are NOT liable for:
- Inaccurate or outdated information
- Errors or omissions in content
- Your reliance on content
- Legal outcomes in your case
- Attorney performance or malpractice
- Decisions you make based on content
- Damages from using our services
- Lost custody or parenting time
- Financial losses
- Emotional distress
- Any direct, indirect, incidental, consequential, or punitive damages
Cap on Liability
To maximum extent permitted by law:
- Our liability is limited
- See Terms of Service for complete limitation
- Generally limited to $100 or amount you paid (which is $0 for free services)
Basis of Limitation
These limitations exist because:
- We provide free educational information
- We cannot provide free services without liability protections
- You assume risks of using free information
- You should verify information independently
- You should consult professional attorney
Third Party Content
Information from Other Sources
Our website may contain links to, or information from, third-party sources.
Third-Party Links
We link to:
- Official government websites
- Court websites
- State bar associations
- Legal resources
- Attorney websites
- Other educational resources
We do NOT:
- Control third-party content
- Endorse third-party content
- Verify third-party accuracy
- Update when third-party content changes
- Assume responsibility for third-party sites
Your Use of Third-Party Sites
When you click external link:
- You leave Custody.mom
- Third-party’s terms apply
- Third-party’s privacy policy applies
- We have no control over what happens
- You use at your own risk
You should:
- Read their policies
- Understand you’re on different site
- Exercise caution with your information
Changes To Information
Information May Change
We may update, modify, or remove information at any time without notice.
Why Information Changes
We may update content because:
- Laws change
- Procedures change
- We discover errors
- We improve explanations
- We add new information
- We receive feedback
- Court rules change
No Obligation to Update
We have NO obligation to:
- Notify you of changes
- Keep all information current
- Maintain outdated information
- Provide change history
- Update older content
Your Responsibility
You are responsible for:
- Checking “last updated” dates
- Verifying information is current
- Rechecking information periodically
- Not relying on potentially outdated content
Jurisdiction Specific Disclaimers
Additional Disclaimers by State/Country
Certain jurisdictions require additional disclaimers.
Texas Disclaimer
If applicable to Texas users: “This website is an advertisement for attorney services.”
New York Disclaimer
If applicable to New York users: “Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome.”
California Disclaimer
If applicable to California users: “This website provides information only and is not a substitute for professional legal advice.”
Other Jurisdictions
We comply with attorney advertising rules and disclaimers required in all jurisdictions where we operate.
Your Responsibility
What You Must Do
Using this website responsibly is YOUR responsibility.
You Must:
Verify Information:
- Check information against official sources
- Verify currency of information
- Confirm applicability to your state
- Don’t assume accuracy
Consult Professionals:
- Hire qualified attorney
- Get legal advice for your case
- Follow attorney’s guidance
- Don’t rely solely on website
Exercise Caution:
- Use information carefully
- Don’t make legal decisions without professional help
- Understand limitations
- Assume risks of use
Follow the Law:
- Comply with all applicable laws
- Follow court rules and procedures
- Meet all deadlines
- File appropriate documents
Protect Yourself:
- Conduct due diligence on attorneys
- Read retainer agreements carefully
- Keep copies of all documents
- Document everything in your case
You Must NOT:
Rely Inappropriately:
- Treat information as legal advice
- Make legal decisions based solely on website
- Use as substitute for attorney
- Assume information is complete or current
Misuse Information:
- Violate laws based on misunderstanding
- Harm others using information
- Practice law without license
- Represent others without authorization
Make Assumptions:
- Assume we’ve verified everything
- Assume attorneys are competent based solely on network inclusion
- Assume favorable outcome
- Assume information applies to you
Contact For Legal Advice
How to Get Actual Legal Help
IF YOU NEED LEGAL ADVICE (and you probably do), contact a licensed attorney.
Finding an Attorney
Use our attorney matching service:
- Complete simple form
- Matched with 1-3 attorneys in your area
- Free consultations offered
- No obligation to hire
Other Resources
State Bar Referral Services:
- Every state bar has lawyer referral
- Google “[Your State] bar association lawyer referral”
- Often discounted initial consultations
Legal Aid:
- If income-qualified, may be free
- Google “[Your State] legal aid”
- Limited availability
Attorney Directories:
- Avvo.com
- Lawyers.com
- Martindale.com
- Research attorneys independently
Do NOT Contact Custody.mom for Legal Advice
We CANNOT:
- Provide legal advice to you
- Analyze your specific situation
- Tell you what to do in your case
- Predict outcomes
- Review documents for filing
- Represent you
If you email us asking for legal advice:
- We will remind you we can’t provide it
- We will suggest consulting an attorney
- We will offer our attorney matching service
- We will NOT analyze your case
Contact us only for:
- General questions about the website
- Technical issues
- Information about our services
- Feedback or suggestions
NOT for legal advice about your case.
Acknowledgment And Acceptance
You Understand and Agree
BY USING CUSTODY.MOM, YOU ACKNOWLEDGE AND AGREE THAT:
- You have read this Legal Disclaimer in its entirety
- You understand Custody.mom is not a law firm
- You understand no legal advice is provided
- You understand no attorney-client relationship exists
- You understand information is general and educational only
- You understand state laws vary significantly
- You understand information may not be accurate or current
- You understand we make no guarantees about attorney quality
- You understand you use website at your own risk
- You understand you should consult with licensed attorney
- You understand we have limited liability
- You understand your responsibility to verify information
- You assume all risks of using the website
- You will not rely solely on website content for legal decisions
- You will hire qualified attorney for legal advice
Final Warning
The Bottom Line
CHILD CUSTODY CASES ARE SERIOUS LEGAL MATTERS THAT REQUIRE PROFESSIONAL LEGAL REPRESENTATION.
This website:
- Provides general information
- Cannot replace attorney
- Should not be relied upon as legal advice
- Is starting point for education, not ending point
You need:
- Licensed attorney in your state
- Professional legal advice
- Representation in court
- Strategic guidance for your specific case
Don’t risk your relationship with your children by relying solely on general website information.
Hire an attorney.
